I do not want to build Tinder.
I also do not want to kill Tinder. If a good enough public alternative ever appears, the old model will simply become less necessary. That is enough for me.
I am thinking about something else.
In big cities, we are surrounded by more people than ever, and sometimes we find each other less easily than people in a village two hundred years ago. Technology supposedly shortens distance, but very often it only makes loneliness more efficient.
Love is not a tiny private extra. Friendship is not either. Real closeness is infrastructure for human life. Without it, we become sicker, more cynical, easier to manipulate, and less alive.
So I am asking a simple question.
What if there were a platform for dating, friendship, and closeness that was free forever? Not freemium. Not "free until you are lonely enough." Not a product that optimizes your despair into revenue per user.
Free the way Wikipedia is free. Maintained as a public good. Open, inspectable, with clear rules, serious moderation, respect for personal data, and no dark UX tricks.
I do not know if this should begin globally. Probably not. Maybe it should begin locally. Bulgaria is small enough for the truth to show up quickly, and real enough for the result to matter.
I do not know whether states, municipalities, or the European Union would fund such a thing. But if we fund roads, libraries, playgrounds, and mental health, why would it be absurd to also think about digital infrastructure for human closeness?
Especially when loneliness is growing, young people are leaving the old dating apps, and entire developed societies are wondering why it is becoming harder for people to build families.
This is not a project yet. It is a seed.
I am writing it not to gather fame, investors, or subscribers. I am writing it because sometimes a thought has to be left on the table, so you can see whether it is alive.
And to understand whether someone else is standing behind that door too.
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